A.W. Tozer on Why We Need Modern-Day Prophets

Voice of a Prophet

Today’s guest post is by Dr. James L. Snyder, author and curator of My Daily Pursuit—Vyrso’s best-selling book of 2013—and the new book Voice of a Prophet. Dr. Snyder is an award-winning author who has written or edited 28 books, and whose work has appeared in more than 80 periodicals. Dr. Snyder’s first book about the life of A.W. Tozer won the 1992 Reader’s Choice Award from Christianity Today. His latest book offers previously unpublished content by Tozer, in which Tozer examines the lives of prophets—like Elijah, Elisha, and John the Baptist—to underscore the importance of prophets’ ministry in today’s church. Get Voice of a Prophet: Who Speaks for God? today!

Throughout Voice of a Prophet, Dr. Tozer emphasizes that the modern church desperately needs a new group of prophets. In fact, just a casual look at the conditions of today’s church would bring anyone to such a conclusion.

Now, when Tozer talks about a prophet, he’s not talking about someone who foresees the future—he’s talking about someone who tells the truth from God’s perspective, regardless of how it might contradict modern thought. The prophets were in complete harmony with the entire Bible. In one chapter of Voice of a Prophet, Dr. Tozer says it takes all of the Bible to make it the Bible. The prophet’s job was to bring all of the Bible to bear upon the life of the believer.

The prophet was the man who listened to God, and therefore God would listen to him. The prophet was to speak for God and communicate what was on God’s heart. That surely was the passion of Dr. Tozer throughout his ministry, for he often prayed that God would raise up a new generation of prophets. We have, he would argue, enough theologians, enough philosophers, enough promoters, enough everything else—what we desperately need today are prophets.

Throughout this book, Dr. Tozer emphasizes the ministry of the New Testament prophet. Just as in every organization, there are gatekeepers to keep out destructive influences so the church can continue in the right direction. That was, of course, the ministry of the New Testament prophet. They were to be the gatekeepers; they were to take out the heresies from the church as well as the heretics.

However, Dr. Tozer went a step further and said that the New Testament prophet was to speak God’s truth concerning a particular situation. They were not to be ambiguous or make generalizations, but offer specific truths for specific situations. Now, Dr. Tozer muses, that will make many people uncomfortable and even angry, but the purpose of the prophet isn’t to soothe the people, but to stir them up and shake loose the dead weight of heresy and get them moving in the straight line of truth.

When we come to the New Testament prophet, we see a man not always accepted into the church, but—according to Dr. Tozer’s perception—desperately needed by the church. If the prophet is worried about his reputation, he can no longer do the work of a prophet. Today we need a fresh group of men called of God to be New Testament prophets, so his church can move in the right direction.

It is my prayer that this new Tozer book, Voice of a Prophet, will do just that.

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Learn more about the need for modern-day prophets from one of the most respected theologians of the twentieth century: get Voice of a Prophet: Who Speaks for God?, by A.W. Tozer and Dr. James L. Snyder today.

 

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Saying “Yes” to God—and Ending Up on the Other Side of the World

Love, Skip, Jump

Today’s interview is with Shelene Bryan, author of the new book, Love, Skip, Jump: Start Living the Adventure of Yes. Bryan is an energetic speaker and passionate advocate for helping needy children across the globe. After a spontaneous trip to East Africa , Bryan founded Skip1.org, a charity dedicated to providing food and clean water to children in America and around the world. Her first book, Love, Skip, Jump, tells her incredible story of abandoning her comfort zone and saying yes to the inspirational journey God planned for her. Her book will show you how to love your creator, skip comfort and safety, and jump into the grand adventure of life. Download Love, Skip, Jump today! 

1. Tell us about the inspiration behind Love, Skip, Jump.

At a party at my house one night, a woman I’d never met before pointed to my refrigerator. On the door hung pictures of the two kids we sponsor in Africa: a little Ugandan girl named Omega for our daughter, Brooke, and an adorable Ugandan boy named Alonis for our son, Blake—all to teach our kids how blessed they are living in America.

Boldly, the woman said, “You fell for that?”

“Excuse me?”

“How do you know that those kids on your refrigerator are real?” she continued. “They might be 40 years old, and they are just taking your money.”

Shocked, I said, “I don’t. I guess I’m just having faith that the money’s getting there.”

She proceeded to boast, “Yeah, well, I never fall for those things.”

That night, after all the party guests were gone, I was left with a nagging, unsettled feeling. I couldn’t get that woman’s words out of my head. What if what she said was true? What if we were being scammed?

When I got into bed, I shook my husband, Brice, awake. He groggily glared at me with a “This better be important” look. I told him about our nameless guest and her comments about 40-year-olds in Africa stealing our kids’ money and said, “So honey, I want to go to Africa and see where our 25 bucks a month is going.”

He said, “Cool. Let’s spend three thousand dollars so you can see where our 25 bucks a month is going.”

In the next few days we decided to take a trip to meet our two sponsored children, but the night before we were supposed to leave Brice got very sick. He’s rarely sick, but about 3:00 a.m., he looked at me with reddened, fever-glazed eyes and said, “Honey, I can’t go. I have no strength to get out of bed.”

“Brice, you’ve just got to suck it up. We have to make it to Heathrow.”

“Honey, there’s no way I can go.”

“It’s a sign,” I declared. “We were going to die on the plane and leave our two kids orphaned while we try and find these kids in Uganda who are probably forty.”

Brice said, “Shelene, you are so dramatic, and you’re not sick.”

“What are you saying?” I asked.

“I’m saying you’re not sick. You need to go.”

“Brice,” I whined, “you are going to send your only wife alone to the other side of the world? Who’s gonna carry my luggage?”

He got very quiet. Then he said, “Honey, you don’t like to go anywhere but the day spa. The fact you want to go to east Africa is astonishing. You need to go.”

As I sat on the edge of our bed, touching my husband’s feverish forehead repeatedly with the quickly diminishing hope that the raging fever would break, I knew I had a decision to make. What was I going to do? All my dreams and plans about this trip had always included my husband—my rock and my protector. But now it was painfully obvious he would not be going.

It was at that moment, sitting on the edge of our bed, that I (with the help of my husband’s quiet, calm confidence) said yes to God and made the decision to jump! I would get out of my comfort zone and jump.

What I found on the shores of Lake Victoria in Uganda changed my life.

I found my little girl, Omega, dressed in her little school uniform, in her mud hut with a sheet for a front door. I bent down and gave her a huge hug. And as I was hugging her, my eye caught the Christmas-card photo of our family embedded in her mud wall. She had been getting my mail! $25 per month was keeping her fed, in school, and providing her basic needs.

That was the inception of Love, Skip, Jump.

2. How did your organization, Skip1.org, get started?

At Skip1.org, we challenge people to give out of their own excess. We want everyone to skip one thing—a lunch, a manicure, a latte, a new outfit—and take what they would have spent on that item and donate it to care for the poor and needy. It’s really that simple: skip it for the sake of someone else.

People always ask me “Do I really have to ‘skip it’ to donate? What if I want to just donate?” My answer to that is no you don’t have to skip something, but I encourage you to try. There’s a connection in the brain when you deliberately forego something for the sake of someone who can never repay you. If you skip your dinner one night and feel a pang of hunger for a few hours, you get a tiny taste of how some kids feel every night. It might just change your perspective.

3. Why is “jumping” so important?

Some people aren’t living life to their fullest potential because they’re afraid to JUMP. The idea of jumping begins with the story of Peter and Jesus (Matthew 14:23-33). In the midst of a terrible storm, the 12 disciples were all on a small boat and saw Jesus walking on the water:

But immediately Jesus spoke to them, saying, “Take heart; it is I. Do not be afraid.”

And Peter answered him, “Lord, if it is you, command me to come to you on the water.”

He said, “Come.” So Peter got out of the boat and walked on the water and came to Jesus.

What I love about this passage is that Peter actually jumped out of the boat. And by jumping, he had the amazing opportunity to walk on water. Eleven didn’t jump, but Peter took that leap right out of the comfort and safety of the boat to go be with his Lord. It’s not that the other disciples weren’t followers of Jesus. Indeed, they were passionate followers, and most would soon lose their lives as a consequence of their true devotion to Peter. But Peter was willing to do something that no one else was—jump.

For those of us who’ve lived our lives way too long in a self-centered “me world,” this passage is very instructive. Just like the 11 disciples who did not jump, we each have our own personal “boats” of comfort and safety that keep us from jumping into the exciting waters God has prepared for us. The question is, what’s holding you back from being like Peter and making the jump?

4. You refer to “wannabe jumpers” as “sideline sitters, constant consumers, and casual clappers”—what do you mean by this?

If you look at your life and can’t identify how you’re helping others, you should ask yourself if you need to make changes.

A sideline-sitter is someone who’s willing to watch but not get involved. A constant consumer is someone who goes to church and sucks up all kinds of great information but never does anything. A casual clapper is someone who’s willing to cheerlead but refuses to get involved.

My question to those who are on the fence is: what’s holding you back from really jumping in with your creator? Your job?, A relationship? An addiction? Laziness? Comfort?

For me it was success in business and the admiration from others that came with it. I craved the accolades that accompanied being a successful businesswoman. For many years, I fought God on the direction he wanted to take my life because I liked the praise that tickled my ears, and I loved the comfort of luxury.

5. What are the biggest challenges facing Skip1?

When we started Skip1, I made a commitment to use 100 percent of our public donations for food, clean water, and the building of our projects. It’s important to people to have a trust like that. It was important to me. I also made a commitment to never ask anyone for a donation. We leave it to God to put it on people’s hearts to give.

Due to these commitments, sometimes I wonder if our hard costs, like office supplies and website costs, are going to be covered. These expenses have to be covered by people who make special private donations specifically for those expenses. Sometimes I wonder where these funds will come from, but God has always come through, sometimes in the most unexpected ways.

6. What are some ways people can tangibly help people abroad?

Skip it. By skipping something and donating that money you can make a real difference. If you want to go deeper, take a trip. It doesn’t even need to be to another country. Go bring some socks, a lunch, some water or chapstick to a homeless person on a street corner. Engage somebody and say “I see you and I care.”

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Discover how saying “yes” to God will transform your life: download Love, Skip, Jump today!

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The Number One Obstacle Facing Today’s Family

Faith and the Modern Family

Today’s guest post is by Craig Jutila—an author, coach, international-communications consultant, and president and founder of Empowered Living. Jutila has more than 25 years’ experience of public speaking, and he served as pastor at two churches, including Saddleback Church for 13 years and The Grove Community Church for seven years. His latest book, Faith and the Modern Family: How to Raise a Healthy Family in a “Modern Family” World, offers biblically sound advice for creating strong and healthy families in the modern world—get it on Vyrso today!

If you were to ask me what I think the biggest obstacle facing today’s modern family is, I’d tell you, “too many choices.” Those choices are rarely between good and bad; they’re mostly between good and better. This changes our way of thinking. We say to ourselves, “If one is good, then more must be better,” but that is rarely, if ever, the case.

Parents today are faced with a unique opportunity,

and that’s too much of a good thing.

Too many choices, too little time

Twenty years ago, the pace of life was more predictable because our choices were somewhat limited. As far as sports, we could play baseball, football, or basketball, and that was it. When we went to a movie, we had two options—the movie playing in theater A or the movie playing in theater B.

My family went to the movies last week, and the same movie was playing in four different theaters: one version of the movie was playing with enhanced RPX sound technology, another was being shown in 3D, a third option was the IMAX large-screen experience, and the fourth was to see the movie in a normal room on a normal screen with normal sound and a normal experience. But who wants normal?

Who wants to be normal when you can have an amazing experience? Bigger sound, bigger picture, bigger experience, bigger drinks. (Don’t get me started on the beverage sizes at the movies. My bladder couldn’t even hold a “small drink” at the local theater.)

What about crayons? Did you know when Crayola produced its first batch of crayons in 1903 there were only eight colors? In 2010, there were about 133 options and at the current rate we will have over 330 choices by 2050! What if I just want a brown crayon? Can’t I just find brown? No! I have to sift through coffee, cinnamon, mocha, sienna, cocoa, and toast before finally settling on russet! What the heck is russet?

And how about TV? Not too many years ago, there were five television channels, and there was no such thing as a remote control. Actually, I was the remote control! My son Alec was standing in front of the TV the other day holding the remote to cycle through channels like an ADD hamster out for a run on its wheel. After a minute of crash-course channel surfing, he tossed the remote on the couch and said, “There’s nothing good on.”

What? Nothing good on? Was he kidding? I said, “You have a thousand channels!” (The definition of “nothing good on” when I was a kid was five channels and a speech by the president being broadcast––when he was speaking, he was on all five channels at once!). During my childhood, there were no laptop computers or wireless anything. We had phones with cords on them!

Running on empty

Moments of rest used to come more naturally to us back then than they do today. Life’s pace, though, is viewed by each generation as moving too fast, and each generation struggles with time-life balance.

“Looking out at the road rushing under my wheels I don’t know how to tell you all just how crazy this life feels. I look around for the friends that I used to turn to, to pull me through. Looking into their eyes I see them running too; running on, running on empty.”

Before Jackson Browne penned those lyrics for his classic song “Running on Empty” (1977), the nineteenth-century British theologian Frederick William Faber wrote:

“It is very unusual for there to be completely quiet in the soul, for God almost continually whispers to us. And whenever the sounds of the world subside in our soul, we hear the whispering of God. Yes, he continues to whisper to us, but we often do not hear him because of the noise and distractions caused by the hurried pace of our life.”

And before Faber wrote his words, Solomon said:

“I discovered that there is ceaseless activity, day and night.” —Ecclesiastes 8:16 (NLTse)

Apparently running on empty, distractions, hurry, and ceaseless activity have been a topic for a while. Each generation must solve busyness within the context of their world. However, regardless of what generation we were born and raised in, over-work comes down to the same thing for each of us: choices.

When we were growing up, phone cords and paper mail kept us on a choiceless leash, whereas today we have more choices than we know what to do with. So, how do we reduce our life choices? That can be summed up in one word: simplify.

What do you think about the statement, “the biggest obstacle facing today’s modern family is too many choices?” Does that describe your family life? In what way? Leave a comment below!

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Learn more about establishing healthy, Christ-focused families: download Jutila’s new book, Faith and the Modern Family: How to Raise a Healthy Family in a “Modern Family” World, on Vyrso today!

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Does Motherhood Signal the End of Beauty?

anorexia1Today’s guest post is by Nicole Whitacre, the main blogger at girltalk and coauthor of Girl Talk: Mother-Daughter Conversations on Biblical Womanhood and Shopping for Time: How to Do It All and Not Be Overwhelmed. She loves being a wife to Steve and mother to two boys and two girls, two of whom were adopted from Ethiopia. 

For a bunch of college girls, it was a shocking sight. Our friend, and the mother of twins, showed us her stretch marks and we, rather impolitely, stared back in dismay. Did pregnancy really carve such strange designs into a woman’s body?

“You will all look like this some day,” she warned, laughing at our expressions. “Of course, mine are worse, because I had twins, but if you get pregnant, you will get stretch marks.”

I’m glad I didn’t know then that in addition to stretch marks I would also have a C-section scar, plus two more long scars from emergency surgery following the delivery of my first child. My stomach now looks like a crudely drawn road map.

Pregnancy wreaks havoc on a woman’s body. Stretch marks and fat deposits, C-section scars and varicose veins . . . the list goes on. Then there’s motherhood. Sleep deprivation digs dark pits underneath our eyes, bottle washing dries out our hands, our clothes don’t fit anymore and are dotted with spit-up. Our joints are stiff from hours of carpool and our muscles sore from carrying children and baby bags and pack and plays (and don’t forget the stroller!).

Whatever beauty we thought we had before we had children feels like a thing of the past. We worry about whether our husband will still find us attractive. We feel self-conscious and insecure about how we look to others.

But motherhood is not the end of beauty, it is an opportunity to become more beautiful. Moms may not get much time at the spa, but they have the chance to apply the godly woman’s beauty regimen every day, all day long.

What is this beauty regimen? Scripture says that the woman who applies trust in God (“a gentle and quiet spirit” 1 Pet. 3:3–5) with good works (1 Tim. 2:9–10) will not fail to become genuinely beautiful. And who, I ask you, has more opportunities to apply this beauty treatment than a mother with young children?

Every day she must trust God with the physical safety, the emotional well-being, and the state of her children’s souls. Every day she must do endless, repetitive acts of service on behalf of her husband and for the sake of children. And every day, as moms, we have countless opportunities to take our eyes off of ourselves, to serve others, and to look to God for strength and help. This makes us truly beautiful.

So think of it this way: you can make yourself beautiful all day long! Not only when you shower and style your hair, but also when you clean up vomit and wipe dirty bottoms, when you encourage your husband and serve your family with gladness. You are trusting God and doing good works. This will make you beautiful in the eyes of your husband and your children, and precious in the sight of God.

Motherhood is not the end of beauty; instead it can be the beginning of a deeper, more profound beauty that transforms us from the inside out. So instead of mourning the loss of a smooth, flat, stomach, let’s give thanks for the opportunity to pursue a beauty that will never fade (1 Pet. 3:3–5).

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Learn more about the beauty of motherhood and glorifying Christ with relatable resources from Nicole Witacre. Discover how to better communicate with your daughter and show her what it means to be a godly woman with Girl Talk: Mother-Daughter Conversations on Biblical Womanhood. Then learn how to cope with the demands of being a busy mom with Shopping for Time: How to Do It All and Not Be Overwhelmed. This book offers five key tips for excelling at your daily responsibilities without becoming overwhelmed. Get both books on Vyrso today!

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The Healthy Church: Tony Merida on Christ-Centered Exposition

Tony Merida

Today’s guest post is by Tony Merida—a pastor, professor, and author, and a leading evangelical voice on the importance of Christ-centered exposition, global missions, and orphan care. After adopting five children, Merida coauthored Orphanology: Awakening to Gospel-Centered Adoption and Orphan Care, which unveils the grassroots movement to serve hundreds of millions of orphans and “functionally parentless” children across the globe. His latest project is coediting the Christ-Centered Exposition Commentary Series (CCE) along with David Platt and Daniel Akin. Get the CCE’s Exalting Jesus in Matthew and Exalting Jesus in 1 & 2 Timothy and Titus today!

When I was in college, I became a disciple of Jesus. After about a year of following Christ, I sat under the expository preaching of Jim Shaddix for three consecutive nights at a worship event, and it changed my life. My heart “burned within me,” like the disciples on the Emmaus Road, as he unfolded the glories of Scripture. Since then, my aim in the pulpit has not changed: to expound the Bible and point people to Jesus. So when Dr. Daniel Akin, another mentor and model expositor, approached me about contributing to the new Christ-Centered Exposition Commentary Series (CCE) and serving as a general editor with him and my friend David Platt, I was deeply honored and thrilled.

There are lots of commentaries out there, so what makes this series different? Let me mention some hopes of CCE.

First, we (the editors) hope that the CCE helps pastors teach the Word of God, and helps people understand the Word. God builds his church by his Word. One may build a crowd in some other way, but you won’t build a church apart from the God-breathed Scriptures. So we want people to know the Bible and see the church flourish.

Second, we want to exalt Jesus. While we don’t approve of wild allegory or fanciful typology, we do have the conviction that the whole Bible is Christian Scripture. We believe that the Bible is a unified book, and that Jesus is the hero of the storyline of Scripture. In the words of our denominational statement of faith, “Christ is the center of divine revelation” (BFM 2000).

Third, we hope that the various voices, many of whom are younger pastors, will provide helpful models for expounding books of the Bible. Exposition is both science and art. The scientific piece involves the rules of exegesis; the artistic piece involves sermon design and style. Our hope is that this series will provide some good examples of expositors that communicate the Bible with exegetical accuracy and with artistic effectiveness, and in so doing, show teachers what it looks like for someone to expound a book of the Bible. By reading exposition after exposition, the younger aspiring teacher or preacher should catch the nature and rhythm of doing Christ-centered exposition week by week.

Fourth, we expect this series to have a missions focus. We believe that this missional focus is a natural outflow of the Bible’s Messianic focus. As we unfold the Bible’s drama, we will unfold God’s global plan. The Bible’s storyline is moving to the climactic, Christ-exalting end that we read about in Revelation. In addition, we also anticipate that each author will provide missional applications and illustrations to both challenge and inspire readers to make disciples of all nations.

In the words of Platt, “If you have a Bible . . .  and I hope you do,” then I invite you to study along with us through the CCE as we seek to both know the Word of Christ and worship the Christ of the Word.

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Get the CCE’s Exalting Jesus in Matthew and Exalting Jesus in 1 & 2 Timothy and Titus on Vyrso today! Then download Orphanology: Awakening to Gospel-Centered Adoption and Orphan Care to get biblically sound advice and heartwarming stories to encourage you to help God’s children all over the globe.

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Can the Church Still Change the World?

Passion and Purpose

Today’s interview is with Jimmy Seibert, founder and senior pastor of Antioch Community Church in Waco, Texas, and president of Antioch Ministries International—the church-planting missions arm of the church that has planted 70 churches across the globe and is one of the fastest growing evangelical movements in the country. Seibert also started World Mandate, an annual conference aimed to equip people to live missionally that draws more than 7,000 attendees. In his latest book, Passion & Purpose: Believing the Church Can Still Change the World, Seibert gives a firsthand account of a church that’s cultivating a global impact. With an intentional focus on intimacy with Jesus, discipleship, church planting, and evangelism, this book is perfect for pastors, missionaries, and disciples wanting to get inspired to make a real change in the world. Download Passion & Purpose today!

1. Why did you write Passion & Purpose, and why now?

Revival is only a prayer away. We chose to write this book now because I believe there’s a deep need for more voices calling people to a radical devotion to Jesus. We wanted to inspire others to believe in the Church again—not just biblically, but practically—as we rally together to be the moral conscience of our nation and the hands and feet of Jesus in the earth.

In our world, there is a desperate cry for the church to really be the church. As we look to the future, I have great hope that God’s plan will not be thwarted! Jesus said in Matthew 16:18, “I will build my church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.” I think what it all comes down to is this: will we partner with him?

2. What do you think God’s plan is for the church?

The church is God’s “Plan A” for seeing his glory distributed on the earth—not just for salvation, but for the transformation of lives and entire societies. The question I’m often asked is, “Can that really happen?” My answer is definitively, YES! Our experience over the last 26 years has been that the church is alive and well. When people fall in love with Jesus and passionately pursue him with all their hearts, their lives are transformed. They become change agents in the lives of others and amidst the social issues around them. So I’m passionate that the church is God’s answer to our broken world. Now more than ever we must restore the faith for what the church can be.

3. How has writing this book stirred your faith for what God is doing in the world?

As I recounted all the stories from our journey, I came to a place of renewed joy and hope for the church as God’s vehicle for transformation in the world. In our culture, there’s this gap that the government can’t fill, that businesses can’t fill; it’s not only a moral gap, but also a gap of resources. We’ve found that the church can not only be a part of filling that gap in our cities—whether it’s through education or healthcare—but it can also do the job in such a way that’s stronger than before. My personal faith has been stirred by seeing what God is doing in America and in the Muslim world—it’s stunning. We’re seeing Muslims come to know Jesus and establish themselves as his people more than ever before in history. It’s a thrilling time, and I’m so inspired by what God is doing right now in the nations!

4. What do you hope readers take away from this book?

My deepest hope is that through this book, more people would fall in love with Jesus and start to believe in the Church again. It isn’t about me or about Antioch; it’s all about Jesus, who is calling each of us to experience him in an intimate and renewed way. It’s his story. My hope is that in telling this story, there is a stirring of the heart, both personally and corporately, as the light of Jesus is poured out in our cities, our nation, and in the nations of the world.

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Get fired up to make a difference in the world with this firsthand account of Antioch Ministries’ humble beginnings and life-changing effects: get Jimmy Seibert’s Passion & Purpose: Believing the Church Can Still Change the World today!

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Life with a New Baby: 4 Ways to Strengthen Your Faith (and Stay Sane)

New Mom's Guid

“Even when motherhood feels wonderful, it’s overwhelming.” —Susan Besze Wallace

Almost every mom has felt this way—that even between the joy of first smiles, first steps, and first words are the burdens of last-minute wardrobe changes, last-to-the-dinner-table meals, and the very last things you feel like doing (e.g., today’s millionth diaper change). So how do new moms balance the good and the bad? That’s just it—there has to be a balance.

Adapted from Wallace’s book, The New Mom’s Guide to Life with Baby, here are four ways to keep your faith and marriage strong, while acclimating to your new role as a mom:

1. Establish a daily routine that accommodates your needs

In order to stay sane, map out a few things that are important to you that you want (or need) to make daily habits. Here are a few priority items to consider: a new activity for the baby—this could be a new song, a new walk, or a new story; a comforting activity for you—devotions, a bubble bath, or (God willing) a nap; and a loving act toward your husband—like words of affirmation or a special note in his lunch. Obviously every mom is different, so your needs are different; pinpoint the most fulfilling parts of your day and make them habits.

2. Understand the changes in your body

Just because you’ve given birth doesn’t mean the labor’s over. From breast-feeding to weight gain to hormonal changes, your body is unquestionably different after having a baby. So instead of crying over your favorite pair of pants that are now three sizes too small, accept your body’s changes, find out what’s healthy and what’s not, and talk to other moms for support. I’m not going to go into details here, but Wallace does. So if you want specific answers to your very specific questions, check out her guide for new moms.

3. Keep your marriage strong

Have you asked your husband how he’s doing with the baby lately? Have you shared how you’re feeling? Physical intimacy starts with emotional intimacy, so to keep your marriage strong, you need to keep strong communication. Parenthood brings to light all-new strengths and skills—notice your spouse’s and tell him. Is he particularly loving and playful with the baby? Let him know. Is he more attentive to you now that you’ve given birth? Thank him for his support. Likewise, if he’s not giving you the support you need, tell him.

4. Find your own mothering style

Every mom is different, so don’t compare yourself to other Pinterest-perfect moms. God made you who you are for a very specific reason, so embrace your unique, God-given gifts, and use them to be the unique, God-loving mother he created you to be. Here’s what Wallace says about it: “It’s important to remember that you are this child’s mom. You may not have every trick and technique in your arsenal yet, but you have a set of sensitivities and sensibilities that you will build on, or deconstruct. That’s the journey of motherhood.”

Learn more about the nitty gritty details of motherhood and how to stay strong throughout life’s changes: get Susan Besze Wallace’s The New Mom’s Guide to Life with a Baby for just $9!

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Mother’s Day May Be Over, but a Mom’s Job Is Never Done

Busy MomMother’s Day is over, and you (hopefully) gave your mom a card, maybe took her out to lunch, and in general, showed her a smidge more appreciation than most days. But now it’s done, and you can move on with your life—and if you’re like me, you probably won’t consider giving mom another thoughtful card until her birthday rolls around six months from now.

The thing is, you may take time off from appreciating mom, but she never gets to take time off from being “mom.” And let’s not forget, God commands us to honor our parents—not just one day a year, but throughout our lives (Deuteronomy 5:16).

What’s the value of a mom?

A 2013 Salary.com study found that a stay-at-home mom was worth about $114,000 a year. The catch? She’s working a 94-hour work week and doesn’t actually make a penny. Here’s how her weekly work numbers breaks down:

  • 14 hours as a cook
  • 14.4 hours as a maid
  • 8 hours as a taxi driver
  • 7.8 hours as a janitor
  • 3.3 hours as a CEO
  • 7.3 hours as a psychologist
  • 8.9 hours as a computer operator
  • 6.2 hours as a laundry operator
  • 10.8 hours as a facilities manager
  • 13.3 hours as a day-care teacher

Amidst all these vocational duties, the one overarching motivation is love. Your mom spent (or spends) at least 100 hours every single week caring for you in a variety of ways, and you think that two-hour brunch and $4 greeting card are adequate for showing your appreciation? (Please commence guilt trip now.)

A mother’s most important role

Although being a mom is an incredibly busy role, it’s not just a chore—it’s a gift from God (Psalm 127:3–5), and God has called mothers to be loving and nurturing (Titus 2:4–5). He’s created them in his image so they can serve as reflections of the strength, goodness, wisdom, and love that God has for us (Genesis 1:27).

It may just seem like she’s doing your laundry like normal, or calling you repeatedly to see how the new job is going, or asking to babysit the grandkids again—and all of these things may seem so predictably “mom.” But don’t forget—these are acts of love. Moms are a physical and emotional presence that give us a glimpse of God’s eternal, other-worldly love for us. I’d say that calls for more than just one day of celebrating.

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absorbing_power_graceToday’s guest post is by Kathi Lipp, a full-time speaker, writer, and highly respected expert on parenting and marriage. She’s been featured on Focus on the Family, Parenting Today, Today’s Christian Woman, and more. Get her powerful book, 21 Ways to Connect with Your Kids, today!

“The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases;

his mercies never come to an end;

they are new every morning;

great is your faithfulness.

‘The Lord is my portion,’ says my soul,

‘therefore I will hope in him.’”

—Lamentations 3:22–24

“If only I were a better mom . . .”

Oh I feel the pain and regret in those words. Such a simple sentence, yet so heavy with hurt.

It’s felt in every public meltdown at Target (what is it about Target that make kids self-destruct?). Every pouting lip, every bad report card, and every disobedient standoff, the thought comes back to us: “If only I were a better mom.”

So much of my parenting I’ve felt was a test. If only I were a better parent, my kids wouldn’t be behaving this way. Or maybe it was God trying to get me to straighten up, toughen up, and be a better parent.

But God didn’t send me these kids to test me. He sent me these kids to bless me (and sometimes blessing me means those kids keep me on my knees . . .).

So today was a bad mom day. My kids didn’t say rise up to bless me, (in fact, the only thing they said to me this morning was, “Mom, I don’t have any clean socks!”), but I will not let one bad mom day define me. Because each day is a new day to get what I need from God. “For His compassions never fail. They are new every morning.”

He never runs out of what I need.

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