7 Inspirational Quotes on Prayer

National Day of Prayer

Today is the National Day of Prayer: a day when we come together to pray for those around us.

Mother Teresa put it best when she said, “Prayer is not asking. Prayer is putting oneself in the hands of God, at His disposition, and listening to His voice in the depth of our hearts.” Prayer is a powerful and intimate way to connect with God.

In honor of the National Day of Prayer, we’ve compiled seven quotes on prayer from some of Vryso’s featured ebooks:

1. “Everything done under the heavens is accomplished through prayer. Nothing will stand against the forces of evil without it.” (click to tweet)

—John Bornschein, The Front Line: A Prayer Warrior’s Guide to Spiritual Battle

2. “Jesus taught us to lead creatively and wisely, but he refused to tell us exactly how to do it. He just said that the Word of God must be our Truth, and that he would leave his Spirit to guide ours. He  told us to pray.” (click to tweet)

—Richard Kriegbaum, Leadership Prayers

3. “Not only do our prayers please God, the Holy Spirit uses them to accomplish heaven’s purpose on earth.” (click to tweet)

—Bryan Chapell, Praying Backwards

4. “Perpetual prayer . . . will unleash the power.” (click to tweet)

—Dutch Sheets, Authority in Prayer

5. “When praying for marital authenticity, pray for the kind of heart and authentic spirit that Jesus modeled for us.” (click to tweet)

—Will Davis Jr., Pray Big for Your Marriage: The Power of Praying God’s Promises for Your Relationship

6. “God answers all of His children’s prayers. Often not instantly or in the way we would imagine, but He faithfully answers our prayers, often exceeding our requests.” (click to tweet)

—Lana Bateman, The Heart of Prayer

7. “Our Lord has given us a simple prescription for anxiety—pray. This medication claims to bring the peace of God that transcends all understanding.” (click to tweet)

—Susan Sorensen, Praying through Cancer: Set Your Heart Free from Fear

Invest in your prayer life—download some of these ebooks today.  

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3 Ways to Elevate the Leaders around You

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As John Maxwell is famous for saying, “Everything rises and falls on leadership.” One of the most important factors in the long-term success of your organization is the leadership you develop from within its ranks. A great leader makes other great leaders.  Maybe you’ve wondered how to begin raising up leaders from within your organization. You’re in luck. We have a list.

 1.) Value people over products

People matter. Only two things last forever: the Word of God and the souls of men. (click to tweet) It may feel counterintuitive, but acting in the best interests of your people is also in the best interests of your organization. All people, especially the talented ones, long to be valued as individuals, as human beings, not just as units of human resources. All people, especially the talented ones, will sense if you do not value them, and they will leave. And the talented ones will leave fast.

 2.) Stop telling people what to do

Let’s face it: some of the people who report to you have skills that you do not. Whether you manage employees or volunteers, the formula is the same. You’re going to get better results when, rather than dictating specific actions, you can establish vision and trust the skills on your team. The Harvard Business Review recently published an excellent article that explains this idea in depth. The bottom line: trust breeds initiative.

3.) Don’t be shy about mistakes

Things are going to go wrong. As young leaders take initiative, young leaders will make mistakes. Count on it. If you’re hoping to create a place without mistakes, best to create it without leaders, without people at all. Any initiative you have created with trust will be quickly squashed with a zero-tolerance policy on mistakes. This means you cannot freak out when things go wrong. Even big things.

If you’d like to read more, we have a huge collection of leadership books here at Vyrso, and many of them are on sale at the moment. You can browse through the entire collection of 400-plus resources, but I would draw your attention to these titles as personal favorites of mine.

Become a Coaching Leader: The Proven System for Building Your Own Team of Champions by Daniel S. Harkavy

  •  This book will help you develop a lifestyle that will make you magnetic to people of high character.

Leveraging Your Leadership Style by John Jackson & Lorrain Bosse-Smith

  •  Leadership development never required a cookie cutter. Every leader is different, and this book will help you appreciate diversity.

The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by John Maxwell

  •  It’s a classic because it’s exceptional. If you’ve never read John Maxwell, start here.

Washington: A Legacy of Leadership by Paul S. Vickery

  • Good leaders learn from one another. George Washington is one of history’s greatest leaders. There are many leadership lessons to be gleaned from a study of his life.

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How to Be a Leader

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“To learn from Jesus means to follow Jesus. The church today seems to be more interested in those who are ambitious to lead than in those who are willing to follow.” –C. Gene Wilkes, Jesus on Leadership

Leadership begins with mission. Without a goal in mind, there is no need or motivation to lead. Effective leadership begins with an intimate relationship with God, and a passion to lead others into a relationship with him too. We require God’s help to lead people the way they need to be led, and he doesn’t expect us to do it alone.

Since we’re leading not alone but with the help of God, we are to begin by following Jesus’ example rather than our own ambitions. Jesus set a great example for us in the leadership of his disciples. He knew that they were trapped in their world’s way of seeing things, and he longed for them to see things God’s way. He began by teaching them to follow him. He wanted them to know that this was a choice they could make when leading others. Jesus’ way of leadership was confusing to them, because it didn’t align with the self-seeking way of leadership they had experienced in their own culture.

This type of leadership is just as foreign today as it was in Jesus’ day. We often view leadership as being in charge of others, rather than following and learning from others. As Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever humbles himself will be exalted” (Matt. 23:12). This isn’t exactly the first thing that comes to mind when one thinks of effective leadership; in fact, leadership is often the opposite of humbleness. However, biblical leadership begins with following Jesus and serving others.

If we are leading as Christ led, leadership shouldn’t be viewed as a position of power. Jesus didn’t see it this way, and neither should we. He was never self-seeking. He led first to serve God, and to carry out his mission. He wasn’t trying to gain control over those around him; rather, he was trying to carry out the will of his father. Jesus said, “For I have come down from heaven not to do my will but to do the will of him who sent me.” Our goal in leadership should be just this—to carry out the will of God, no matter the cost.

To learn more about biblical leadership, check out some of Vyrso’s resources on leading for Christ:

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Praying for Others

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Have you ever tried to share your faith with a friend, coworker, or family member, only to have them respond with downright hostility? Those around you may reject your concern for them, and possibly even take it as offensive. My grandma isn’t a believer, and it can be heartbreaking to get up the courage to share the Gospel with her, only to have her cut me down. These situations can leave us feeling not only discouraged, but bitter toward those who are rejecting our offer to share the good news with them.

Even when we are rejected, the unbelievers in our lives should be able to tell by how we live that we truly care for them, and that they can depend on us to intercede for them with the only One who can truly change their hearts. Even though I know it makes her frustrated, I tell my grandma that I am praying for her on a regular basis. And I hope that one day she’ll come to realize that I don’t do this out of pushiness, but rather out of love for her.

“God, help me to learn to pray in power. Increase my faith to believe for the answers to my prayers. Enable me to become an intercessor for others—especially those who do not know You. I pray that everyone around me will be able to recognize by my life that I am a person of great faith and power in prayer, and that they can trust in the God to whom I pray.Stormie Omartian, The Power of Praying through the Bible

You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.” —Matthew 5:43–45

Stormie Omartian’s books have been tremendously helpful in my prayer life. If you’d like to make a step toward a more fulfilling prayer life, check out some of her resources:

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True Transparency

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“Transparency is often scarce among Christian leaders. When they share personal illustrations, leaders often careen between two extremes: self-celebration or catharsis. Appropriate transparency reveals enough to be helpful, but avoids self-promotion” –Jeff Lorg, The Character of Leadership: Nine Qualities That Define Great Leaders

True transparency is difficult. In the age of Facebook, many of us prefer to live behind the façade of a perfect life in fear of appearing weak or unsatisfied. However, transparency is a very important quality for any leader. Appearing perfect doesn’t help others relate to us, or make them feel comfortable about coming to us in need of help or guidance. Covering up our blemishes leads to an appearance of being prideful, and to disconnect between us and those who need help dealing with their own struggles.

Transparency allows others to look into our lives and learn from our mistakes. This doesn’t mean that we need to share every detail of our lives with those around us, but some transparency is healthy. Being transparent about who we are—including our weaknesses and flaws—leads to humility.

In The Character of Leadership: Nine Qualities that Define Great Leaders, Jeff Lorg says, “The simple goal of becoming more like Jesus should be the ultimate goal of every leader.” Strive to be more open and honest with those around you, even when it feels uncomfortable. The goal shouldn’t be to appear perfect, but rather to be open and honest about your journey to becoming more like Christ.

Jeff Lorg provides great advice on being a leader. Be sure to check out some of his other resources:

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Having an Open Home

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When we were growing up, our house was constantly filled with people. My mom ran an in-home daycare, and my family was constantly taking in both family members and non–family members who needed a safe place to stay or a meal to eat. I remember being frustrated as a child. I needed peace and quiet, and I wanted time to spend with just my parents and siblings. My cousins would tear through the house, break my toys, and wear my clothes. I was constantly upset with them, yet my parents would always tell me that my toys and clothes weren’t important; showing Christ’s love was.

When the word evangelism comes to mind, many of us would think of going out and telling the world about Jesus. This is an important aspect of evangelism, but we often forget a vital aspect of being Disciples of Christ—opening up our home.

My cousins grew up knowing that my family was always there for them, and when they needed to escape their rough home life, they could come to our house—day or night. They knew that they could always count on us to pray for them, love them, and listen to them.

Just last year I witnessed one of my cousins devote his life to Jesus. He decided he wanted to speak at our church, and he got up in front of the congregation and told about how thankful he was to my family for loving him even when he didn’t feel he deserved it. He said he realized that God loves him in the same way we had always loved him—and that he wanted to live his life demonstrating that same love.

“When you give a luncheon or dinner, do not invite your friends, your brothers or relatives, or your rich neighbors; if you do, they may invite you back and so you will be repaid. But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed. Although they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.” –Luke 14:12–14

In The Heart of Evangelism, Jerram Barrs says that “Genuine, biblical hospitality is not having a few church friends over to show off our new house or our new sofa set or our cooking skills and being upset if they don’t invite us back! Scriptural hospitality is inviting people over who need our love, who need a meal, who are unlikely ever to repay us with a return invitation.”

Giving love and expecting nothing in return is one of the most effective ways to evangelize. Consider adopting someone into your family who is in need and most likely won’t be able to return the favor. Love them in the way Christ loves you, and show them the truths of Scripture, rather than just telling them.

For more insight into evangelism, check out these resources:

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Tips for Your First Year of Marriage

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The first year of marriage is a wonderful and exciting time. It’s also a challenging time. During my engagement period, I heard all kinds of takes on what the first year of marriage would be like. Some said I’d still be in the honeymoon stage, and it would be a piece of cake. Others told stories like the ones Hayley DiMarco tells in her book The Fruitful Wifestories about smashing dishes against the walls of her cellar due to her extreme frustration with her husband. I had no idea what to expect.

No matter what your first year of marriage might look like, there are foundational ideas to keep in mind. As a young wife coming up on my first anniversary, I’ve put together a list of tips for your first year of marriage.

1.     Make God the center of your lives.
A healthy marriage truly begins here. Study God’s Word together. Memorize Scripture together. When times get rough, remember that God is working on your hearts. And most importantly, pray together as often as you can. Pam Farrel, author of A Couple’s Journey with God, once told me that she and her husband kiss each other after every prayer—and have done so throughout their entire marriage. Simple gestures like this are so effective in keeping your relationship with Christ at the center of your marriage.

2.     Be willing to say sorry, and be willing to forgive.
Chances are, you’ll have moments when you just don’t understand your husband’s opinion on an issue. In What Did You Expect? Redeeming the Realities of Marriage, Paul Tripp says, “Since we’re always sinners married to sinners, reconciliation isn’t just the right response in moments of failure. It must be the lifestyle of any healthy marriage.” Marriage is the union of two sinners, and your spouse will fail you. When this happens, it’s important to keep in mind that you fail your spouse, too. It takes a lot of pride-swallowing to say sorry, so when your spouse genuinely apologizes, accept it. And when you know you’ve hurt your spouse, say so. Say sorry—you’ll be surprised at how healing it can be.

3.     Don’t sweat the small stuff.
The majority of the arguments my husband and I got into during our first year of marriage were over such miniscule issues. Before you start arguing, rate the importance of the issue from 1 to 10 in your head. If it’s lower than a 5, drop it. If it’s a 5 or higher, approach it in a way that isn’t degrading or condescending toward your spouse. My husband and I have found it helpful to take a break from the argument and cool down. We’ve waited as long as a day to come back to an issue. Once you’ve cooled down, prayed about the issue, and possibly even slept on it, you’re able to approach it in a much more peaceful manner. If this isn’t your strong point, check out Fight Fair by Tim and Joy Downs.

If you’re interested in entering your first year of marriage as prepared as possible, or know someone who is, check out What Every Groom Needs to Know: The Most Important Year in a Man’s Life and What Every Bride Needs to Know: The Most Important Year in a Woman’s Life. These two books offer wonderful insight for both wives-to-be and husbands-to-be who long for the best, most God-centered first year of marriage they can have.

What’s the best piece of marriage advice you’ve ever received?

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Developing a Lifelong Marriage

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A lot of people discount V-Day as just a “Hallmark Holiday.” While the naysayers may be on to something, I still choose to celebrate the day with my wife. I don’t go over the top; I try to keep it simple and focused. I’ll write her a letter, buy her flowers or chocolate, or maybe make a special dinner—who wants to fight the crowds? The key isn’t to focus on one single date, but to continue these acts of simple love and affection throughout the year.

I do all of this to celebrate the love we share, encourage my wife, and continue a lifelong marriage. When over 50% of marriages fail, I think it takes something special—more than a spark: a lasting flame—to keep a marriage going.

A flame needs three things: oxygen, fuel, and a spark. If there isn’t a spark or enough oxygen and fuel, the fire can’t brighten the spirits of those around it. A marriage is very similar, especially for Christians. It needs more than that first spark. If we don’t include God in our marriages, the fire can’t be sustained very long; pride, selfishness, and society will quickly extinguish the flame. If both partners aren’t willing to serve, the marriage will eventually fizzle.

If you feel like your marriage is fading, or you simply want to keep building it up, let me encourage you with two ebooks’ worth of wisdom:
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What are some of the ways you care for your spouse or significant other?

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32 Things About Charles Spurgeon

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Today’s post is by Stephen McCaskell, author of Through the Eyes of C.H. Spurgeon.

On January 31, 2013, it will have been 121 years since the great preacher Charles Haddon Spurgeon passed away. In his memory, I bring to you 32 things you might not know about Charles Spurgeon.

1. One woman was converted through reading a single page of one of Spurgeon’s sermons wrapped around some butter she bought.

2. Spurgeon first read The Pilgrim’s Progress at age six, and went on to read it over 100 times.

3. The New Park Street Pulpit and The Metropolitan Tabernacle Pulpit—the collected sermons of Spurgeon during his ministry with that congregation—fill 63 volumes. The sermons’ 20–25 million words are equivalent to the 27 volumes of the ninth edition of the Encyclopedia Britannica. The series stands as the largest set of books by a single author in the history of Christianity.

4. Spurgeon’s mother had 17 children, 9 of whom died in infancy.

5. When Spurgeon was only 10 years old, a visiting missionary, Richard Knill, said that the young Spurgeon would one day preach the Gospel to thousands and would preach in Rowland Hill’s chapel, the largest Dissenting church in London. His words were fulfilled.

6. Spurgeon missed being admitted to college because a servant girl inadvertently showed him into a different room than that of the principal who was waiting to interview him. (Later, he determined not to reapply for admission when he believed God spoke to him, “Seekest thou great things for thyself? Seek them not!”)

7. Spurgeon’s personal library contained 12,000 volumes—1,000 printed before 1700. (The library, 5,103 volumes at the time of its auction, is now housed at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary.)

8. Before he was 20, Spurgeon had preached over 600 times.

9. Spurgeon drew to his services Prime Minister W. E. Gladstone, members of the royal family, and members of Parliament, as well as author John Ruskin, Florence Nightingale, and General James Garfield, later president of the United States.

10. The New Park Street Church invited Spurgeon to come for a six-month trial period, but Spurgeon asked to come for only three months because “the congregation might not want me, and I do not wish to be a hindrance.”

11. When Spurgeon arrived at The New Park Street Church, in 1854, the congregation had 232 members. By the end of his pastorate, 38 years later, that number had increased to 5,311. (Altogether, 14,460 people were added to the church during Spurgeon’s tenure.) The church was the largest independent congregation in the world.

12. Spurgeon typically read six books per week and could remember what he had read—and where—even years later.

13. Spurgeon once addressed an audience of 23,654—without a microphone or any mechanical amplification.

14. Spurgeon began a pastors’ college that trained nearly 900 students during his lifetime—and it continues today.

15. In 1865, Spurgeon’s sermons sold 25,000 copies every week. They were translated into more than 20 languages.

16. At least three of Spurgeon’s works (including the multivolume Metropolitan Tabernacle Pulpit series) have sold more than 1,000,000 copies. One of these, All of Grace, was the first book ever published by Moody Press (formerly the Bible Institute Colportage Association) and is still its all-time bestseller.

17. During his lifetime, Spurgeon is estimated to have preached to 10,000,000 people.

18. Spurgeon once said he counted eight sets of thoughts that passed through his mind at the same time while he was preaching.

19. Testing the acoustics in the vast Agricultural Hall, Spurgeon shouted, “Behold the Lamb of God which taketh away the sin of the world.” A worker high in the rafters of the building heard this and became converted to Christ as a result.

20. Susannah Thompson, Spurgeon’s wife, became an invalid at age 33 and could seldom attend her husband’s services after that.

21. Spurgeon spent 20 years studying the Book of Psalms and writing his commentary on them, The Treasury of David.

22. Spurgeon insisted that his congregation’s new building, The Metropolitan Tabernacle, employ Greek architecture because the New Testament was written in Greek. This one decision has greatly influenced subsequent church architecture throughout the world.

23. The theme for Spurgeon’s Sunday-morning sermon was usually not chosen until Saturday night.

24. For an average sermon, Spurgeon took no more than one page of notes into the pulpit, yet he spoke at a rate of 140 words per minute for 40 minutes.

25. The only time that Spurgeon wore clerical garb was when he visited Geneva and preached in Calvin’s pulpit.

26. By accepting some of his many invitations to speak, Spurgeon often preached 10 times in a week.

27. Spurgeon met often with Hudson Taylor, the well-known missionary to China, and with George Muller, the orphanage founder.

28. Spurgeon had two children—twin sons—and both became preachers. Thomas succeeded his father as pastor of the Tabernacle, and Charles Jr. took charge of the orphanage his father had founded.

29. Spurgeon’s wife, Susannah, called him Tirshatha (a title used of the Judean governor under the Persian empire), meaning “Your Excellency.”

30. Spurgeon often worked 18 hours a day. Famous explorer and missionary David Livingstone once asked him, “How do you manage to do two men’s work in a single day?” Spurgeon replied, “You have forgotten that there are two of us.”

31. Spurgeon spoke out so strongly against slavery that American publishers of his sermons began deleting his remarks on the subject.

32. Occasionally Spurgeon asked members of his congregation not to attend the next Sunday’s service, so that newcomers might find a seat. During one 1879 service, the regular congregation left so that newcomers waiting outside might get in; the building immediately filled again.

 

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