The Best of Brennan Manning: Remembering the Ragamuffin

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The late Brennan Manning, someone who had nothing to prove, like he had been convicted guilty and released anyway. Some would say that he lived like all believers should. Along the way, Manning, ordained as a Franciscan priest, played mentor to some of the generation’s most prominent songwriters—Toby Mac, Rich Mullins, Matthew Perryman Jones, and Warren Barfield.

Manning had his critics—grace always makes a scandal—but he never failed to challenge complacent faith. Here are some examples:

“The greatest single cause of atheism in the world today is Christians who acknowledge Jesus with their lips and walk out the door and deny Him by their lifestyle.” Ragamuffin Gospel

This line from Ragamuffin Gospel, arguably the most famous sentence Manning ever penned, appeared as part of the prelude to the dc Talk song “What If I Stumble?” Its sentiment is echoed throughout Manning’s autobiography, All Is Grace.

“There are two visions of life, two kinds of people. The first sees life as a possession to be carefully guarded. They are called settlers. The second sees life as a wild, fantastic, explosive gift. They are called pioneers. —The Relentless Tenderness of Jesus

In the Relentless Tenderness of Jesus explores the intersection of identity and appearance.

“Healing becomes the opportunity to pass off to another human being what I have received from the Lord Jesus; namely His unconditional acceptance of me as I am, not as I should be.” The Furious Longing of God

The institutional church was not friendly to Brennan Manning. Manning’s critics often outnumbered his readers, but he remained unflappable—perhaps because he understood God’s intense love for him, as much as any human could. He wrote The Furious Longing of God late in his life. Sin gave Brennan Manning many scars, but Jesus wore them.

Tullian Tchividjian summed it up best as he eulogized Manning  in the Christian Post:  “Theologically quirky and personally idiosyncratic, he was nevertheless a broken man on a passionate mission to remind Christians of the truth that while our sin reaches far, God’s grace reaches farther.”

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32 Things About Charles Spurgeon

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Today’s post is by Stephen McCaskell, author of Through the Eyes of C.H. Spurgeon.

On January 31, 2013, it will have been 121 years since the great preacher Charles Haddon Spurgeon passed away. In his memory, I bring to you 32 things you might not know about Charles Spurgeon.

1. One woman was converted through reading a single page of one of Spurgeon’s sermons wrapped around some butter she bought.

2. Spurgeon first read The Pilgrim’s Progress at age six, and went on to read it over 100 times.

3. The New Park Street Pulpit and The Metropolitan Tabernacle Pulpit—the collected sermons of Spurgeon during his ministry with that congregation—fill 63 volumes. The sermons’ 20–25 million words are equivalent to the 27 volumes of the ninth edition of the Encyclopedia Britannica. The series stands as the largest set of books by a single author in the history of Christianity.

4. Spurgeon’s mother had 17 children, 9 of whom died in infancy.

5. When Spurgeon was only 10 years old, a visiting missionary, Richard Knill, said that the young Spurgeon would one day preach the Gospel to thousands and would preach in Rowland Hill’s chapel, the largest Dissenting church in London. His words were fulfilled.

6. Spurgeon missed being admitted to college because a servant girl inadvertently showed him into a different room than that of the principal who was waiting to interview him. (Later, he determined not to reapply for admission when he believed God spoke to him, “Seekest thou great things for thyself? Seek them not!”)

7. Spurgeon’s personal library contained 12,000 volumes—1,000 printed before 1700. (The library, 5,103 volumes at the time of its auction, is now housed at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary.)

8. Before he was 20, Spurgeon had preached over 600 times.

9. Spurgeon drew to his services Prime Minister W. E. Gladstone, members of the royal family, and members of Parliament, as well as author John Ruskin, Florence Nightingale, and General James Garfield, later president of the United States.

10. The New Park Street Church invited Spurgeon to come for a six-month trial period, but Spurgeon asked to come for only three months because “the congregation might not want me, and I do not wish to be a hindrance.”

11. When Spurgeon arrived at The New Park Street Church, in 1854, the congregation had 232 members. By the end of his pastorate, 38 years later, that number had increased to 5,311. (Altogether, 14,460 people were added to the church during Spurgeon’s tenure.) The church was the largest independent congregation in the world.

12. Spurgeon typically read six books per week and could remember what he had read—and where—even years later.

13. Spurgeon once addressed an audience of 23,654—without a microphone or any mechanical amplification.

14. Spurgeon began a pastors’ college that trained nearly 900 students during his lifetime—and it continues today.

15. In 1865, Spurgeon’s sermons sold 25,000 copies every week. They were translated into more than 20 languages.

16. At least three of Spurgeon’s works (including the multivolume Metropolitan Tabernacle Pulpit series) have sold more than 1,000,000 copies. One of these, All of Grace, was the first book ever published by Moody Press (formerly the Bible Institute Colportage Association) and is still its all-time bestseller.

17. During his lifetime, Spurgeon is estimated to have preached to 10,000,000 people.

18. Spurgeon once said he counted eight sets of thoughts that passed through his mind at the same time while he was preaching.

19. Testing the acoustics in the vast Agricultural Hall, Spurgeon shouted, “Behold the Lamb of God which taketh away the sin of the world.” A worker high in the rafters of the building heard this and became converted to Christ as a result.

20. Susannah Thompson, Spurgeon’s wife, became an invalid at age 33 and could seldom attend her husband’s services after that.

21. Spurgeon spent 20 years studying the Book of Psalms and writing his commentary on them, The Treasury of David.

22. Spurgeon insisted that his congregation’s new building, The Metropolitan Tabernacle, employ Greek architecture because the New Testament was written in Greek. This one decision has greatly influenced subsequent church architecture throughout the world.

23. The theme for Spurgeon’s Sunday-morning sermon was usually not chosen until Saturday night.

24. For an average sermon, Spurgeon took no more than one page of notes into the pulpit, yet he spoke at a rate of 140 words per minute for 40 minutes.

25. The only time that Spurgeon wore clerical garb was when he visited Geneva and preached in Calvin’s pulpit.

26. By accepting some of his many invitations to speak, Spurgeon often preached 10 times in a week.

27. Spurgeon met often with Hudson Taylor, the well-known missionary to China, and with George Muller, the orphanage founder.

28. Spurgeon had two children—twin sons—and both became preachers. Thomas succeeded his father as pastor of the Tabernacle, and Charles Jr. took charge of the orphanage his father had founded.

29. Spurgeon’s wife, Susannah, called him Tirshatha (a title used of the Judean governor under the Persian empire), meaning “Your Excellency.”

30. Spurgeon often worked 18 hours a day. Famous explorer and missionary David Livingstone once asked him, “How do you manage to do two men’s work in a single day?” Spurgeon replied, “You have forgotten that there are two of us.”

31. Spurgeon spoke out so strongly against slavery that American publishers of his sermons began deleting his remarks on the subject.

32. Occasionally Spurgeon asked members of his congregation not to attend the next Sunday’s service, so that newcomers might find a seat. During one 1879 service, the regular congregation left so that newcomers waiting outside might get in; the building immediately filled again.

 

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“We must learn to regard people less in the light of what they do or omit to do, and more in the light of what they suffer.” —Dietrich Bonhoeffer

Dietrich Bonhoeffer, a committed pacifist, left his native Germany in 1939 to avoid conscription, which would have entailed swearing an oath to Hitler and fighting in his army. He came to think of that decision as a sort of flight; after just four weeks, he returned to Germany on the last steamer to make the crossing. There he contributed bravely to the resistance; eventually captured, he was hanged on April 9, 1945. Bonhoeffer, by New York Times bestselling author Eric Metaxas, presents this remarkably orthodox theologian’s profound moral courage and extraordinary faith.

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Money, Possessions, and Eternity: A Discussion with Randy Alcorn Part 4

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Randy Alcorn is the founder and director of Eternal Perspective Ministries (EPM), a nonprofit ministry dedicated to teaching the principles of God’s Word and assisting the church in ministering to the unreached, unfed, unborn, uneducated, unreconciled, and unsupported people around the world.  His ministry focus is communicating the strategic importance of using our earthly time, money, possessions, and opportunities to invest in need-meeting ministries that count for eternity.

We were able to talk to Randy about Money, Possessions, and Eternity and how to have a biblically centered mindset regarding our treasures.  Because of Randy’s rich answers to each of our questions, we’ve broken this interview into a four-part miniseries on finances. This is the fourth and final piece in the series—enjoy!

Vyrso Voice: How would you describe the process of weaning yourself off your dependence to stuff? Are there withdrawals? A detox process?

Randy Alcorn: I think one of the most basic ways we can begin weaning ourselves from our dependence to stuff is by realizing that you can’t take it with you. You’ll never see a hearse pulling a U­Haul. If that point is clear in your mind, you’re ready to see the paradigm­shifting significance of what Jesus is saying in Matthew 6. He takes that profound truth “You can’t take it with you” and adds a stunning qualification. By telling us not to store up treasures on earth, but instead to store up treasures for ourselves in Heaven, Jesus is saying, “You can’t take it with you—but you can send it on ahead.”

Matthew 6:19-24 shows us that we’re to avoid storing up treasures on earth not as an end in itself, but as part of a life strategy to lay up treasures in heaven. A person may give up all earthly treasures without ever investing in heavenly treasures. Jesus is not looking for ascetics or hermits, but eternity-wise investors. Jesus is not speculating, he’s speaking of sure things. When he warns us not to store up treasures on earth, it’s not just because wealth might be lost. It’s that wealth will definitely be lost. Either it leaves us while we live, or we leave it when we die.

Whatever treasures we store up on Earth will be left behind when we die. Whatever treasures we store up in Heaven will be waiting for us when we arrive.

If your treasures are on earth, each day you are moving away from them. If your treasures are in heaven, each day you are moving toward them.

He who spends his life moving away from his treasures has reason to despair. He who spends his life moving toward his treasures has reason to rejoice.

It’s a revolutionary concept, this great adventure of giving. If you embrace it, I guarantee it will change your life.

 

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Money, Possessions, and Eternity: A Discussion with Randy Alcorn–Part 3

Randy Alcorn

Randy Alcorn is the founder and director of Eternal Perspective Ministries (EPM), a nonprofit ministry dedicated to teaching the principles of God’s Word and assisting the church in ministering to the unreached, unfed, unborn, uneducated, unreconciled, and unsupported people around the world.  His ministry focus is communicating the strategic importance of using our earthly time, money, possessions, and opportunities to invest in need-meeting ministries that count for eternity.

We were able to talk to Randy about Money, Possessions, and Eternity and how to have a biblically centered mindset regarding our treasures. Because of Randy’s rich answers to each of our questions, we’ve broken this interview into a four-part miniseries on finances. Be sure to check back tomorrow for part 4.

Vyrso Voice: When judging your relationship to money and stuff, where is a good place to start? How do you make an honest assessment of your relationship to your possessions?

Randy Alcorn: Many of us have never known what it is not to be materialistic. This is why we need so desperately to read the Scriptures, grapple with these issues, bring them to God in prayer, discuss them with our brothers and sisters, and look for and learn from those rare models of generous living in our Christian communities.

In the parable of the great banquet, Jesus describes invitations that went out to three men (Luke 14:16-24). All three declined. One said he had to go look at his newly bought field. Another had just gotten married and didn’t have the time. The third man had just purchased five yoke of oxen and was anxious to try them out. The master is angered by these excuses, and he orders his servants to “go out quickly into the streets and alleys of the town and bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind and the lame.” Speaking of those originally invited, who were preoccupied with other concerns, Jesus said, “I tell you, not one of those men who were invited will get a taste of my banquet” (Luke 14:24).

There was nothing wrong with what any of the three men were involved in. They didn’t stay away from the banquet because they were stealing or committing adultery. They stayed away because they had more pressing concerns—a new field, a new wife, a new herd. But regardless of their reasons—good or bad—the bottom line was the same: They were so preoccupied with their new treasures that they said no to the banquet giver and missed the banquet. Significantly, those without material resources were available to accept the invitation.

I think we need to ask ourselves tough questions. Including, for what seemingly good, legitimate, and compelling reasons am I saying no to God? Are my possessions and other pressing concerns causing me to miss the banquet? How would my family and I benefit, and how would God’s kingdom be furthered, if we gave away those possessions?

The only way to break free of materialism is through giving. God hasn’t entrusted us with so much to raise our standard of living, but to raise our standard of giving. So why not liquidate some assets and cut expenditures, and give increasingly more to God’s kingdom? Why not draw a line and say “this much and no more—we can live comfortably on this level of income, Lord; if you provide more than that we’re going to invest the excess in your kingdom.” If you do that, you will experience great joy and you’ll sense God saying to you “Well done.” And your children will grow up in a home that’s really about God’s kingdom.

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Money, Possessions, and Eternity: A Discussion with Randy Alcorn–Part 2

Randy Alcorn

Randy Alcorn is the founder and director of Eternal Perspective Ministries (EPM), a nonprofit ministry dedicated to teaching the principles of God’s Word and assisting the church in ministering to the unreached, unfed, unborn, uneducated, unreconciled, and unsupported people around the world.  His ministry focus is communicating the strategic importance of using our earthly time, money, possessions, and opportunities to invest in need-meeting ministries that count for eternity.

We were able to talk to Randy about Money, Possessions, and Eternity and how to have a biblically centered mindset regarding our treasures. Because of Randy’s rich answers to each of our questions, we’ve broken this interview into a four-part miniseries on finances. Be sure to check back tomorrow for part 3.

Vyrso Voice: It is hard for churches to address issues of money because the church has developed the reputation for being money-hungry. This definitely wasn’t how people viewed the early church. How do you think the church developed this reputation? And how do we begin to change it?

Randy Alcorn: People were amazed that the apostles were plain, ordinary men, with no great education or social status (Acts 4:13). Peter said to the crippled man, “Silver or gold I do not have, but what I have I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, walk” (Acts 3:6).

Although the leaders of the early Church and many of its first members were uneducated and poor, some of them middle class, over time some churches became wealthy, and their pastors became educated and moved to the socioeconomic status once reserved for the Pharisees. There’s nothing wrong with education or money, but certain temptations accompany the status that goes with both. The higher our social standing and the more silver and gold we have, the harder it is for others (and sometimes for us) to believe our message that Christ is our greatest asset and the center of our lives. It becomes harder to trust Christ when you have other assets you can trust.

One thing churches can do is give away large amounts of the money they collect. Our hearts go where we put our treasures, and by giving to missions and the poor and needy our hearts go to those things. That way instead of building our own little kingdom, which is a big temptation for churches, we focus on building God’s kingdom.

We’ve rationalized and justified our lust for money and possessions. Worse, we have baptized our materialism, couched it in religious terms and affirmed it as God’s plan for our lives. That’s prosperity theology, health and wealth gospel, and it’s from the pit of hell. It obscures the true gospel.

We need to ask ourselves whether a materialistic world can ever be won to Christ by a materialistic Church. I don’t think it can.

One problem is that when churches do address the subject of stewardship and giving, a fundamental mistake they often make is tying the teaching to a specific project or need. We preach on giving because the offering is down or to kick off a building fund drive. The result is that people view the instruction on giving merely as a fundraising tool, a means to the end of accomplishing our personal or institutional goals. (Indeed, often that’s just what it is.)

I recommend scheduling messages on giving when there are no special pleas to give. In a society preoccupied with money and possessions, Christians will continually be exposed to wrong thinking and living. Certainly, we cannot expect the Christian community to take Scripture seriously unless pastors clearly teach and apply it.

Fellow Christians ought to disciple each other in financial stewardship. Young believers need to see biblical lifestyle principles embodied. Those who’ve learned about the bondage of debt the hard way need to warn others. Young couples need to hear their elders tell of their joy in giving, and how God has used it in their family. Husbands and wives need to be encouraged to discuss and act on these truths.

Churches can also build credibility by actively and generously supporting Christ’s work around the world. Church budgets often designate less than 10 percent of their income to missions. And what’s called “missions” often includes ministries directed at reaching our own country or community. More than 90 percent of an average local church budget never leaves the country, it remains as part of America’s wealth. All of us should be giving regularly to our local churches, and we should encourage our leaders in turn to invest an even larger share of their church budgets in world missions.

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Money, Possessions, and Eternity: A Discussion with Randy Alcorn–Part 1

Randy Alcorn

Randy Alcorn is the founder and director of Eternal Perspective Ministries (EPM), a nonprofit ministry dedicated to teaching the principles of God’s Word and assisting the church in ministering to the unreached, unfed, unborn, uneducated, unreconciled, and unsupported people around the world.  His ministry focus is communicating the strategic importance of using our earthly time, money, possessions, and opportunities to invest in need-meeting ministries that count for eternity.

We were able to talk to Randy about Money, Possessions, and Eternity and how to have a biblically centered mindset regarding our treasures. Because of Randy’s rich answers to each of our questions, we’ve broken this interview into a four-part miniseries on finances. Be sure to check back tomorrow for part 2.

Vyrso Voice: Why do you think people find it so easy to compartmentalize their relationship to stuff apart from their spirituality?

Randy Alcorn: We find it easy because materialism is the air we breathe. It’s just normal. We become blind to it, and it has blinded us to our own spiritual poverty. Jesus rebuked the Laodicean Christians because although they were materially wealthy, they were desperately poor in the things of God (Revelation 3:17-18). Puritan Richard Baxter said, “When men prosper in the world, their minds are lifted up with their estates, and they can hardly believe that they are so ill, while they feel themselves so well.”

I think one of the most basic things we need to do in order to break the bonds of materialism is to always think in terms of God’s ownership. From beginning to end, Scripture repeatedly emphasizes God’s ownership of everything. Stewardship is living in the light of that overriding truth. It’s living with the awareness that we are managers, not owners; that we are caretakers of God’s assets, which he has entrusted to us for this brief season here on earth. How we handle money and possessions demonstrates who we really believe is their true owner—God or us.

Some of us have heard that before, but the fact that it doesn’t sink in is demonstrated by how we go about spending our money. In the financial world, a good investment manager is very careful, and never takes unnecessary risks. He doesn’t do with his client’s holdings whatever he feels like. Why? Because he knows those assets don’t belong to him; they belong to his client. Good stewards always act in the owners’ best interests, consulting and listening carefully to the owner in order to understand and implement their investment priorities.

If we really believe God is the owner of all that has been entrusted to us, we should be regularly asking him, “What do you want me to do with your money and your possessions?” When we fail to do that, we demonstrate that we don’t get Stewardship 101–it all belongs to God. That has tremendous implications for our relationship to stuff, as well as our view of debt, our spending habits, and our philosophy of giving and investing in eternity.

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Charles Stanley, First Baptist Church Atlanta senior pastor, In Touch Ministries founder and president, and New York Times bestselling author, turned 80 this week. We’ve been celebrating Dr. Stanley’s ministry all week long with a huge sale on all of Charles Stanley’s ebooks on Vyrso.com (no coupon code necessary).

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The Key to Becoming a Better Dad

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Today’s post is by David B. Van Heemst, author of Splashing in Puddles: How to Be a Father to Your Daughter.

Become a Better Dad

Imagine looking back a year from now and thinking, I’ve become a better dad. Wouldn’t that be amazing? What can you do to make becoming a better dad a reality?

Fatherhood is hot. Like never before, the impact—for good or ill—that dads have is a cutting-edge topic. In the first year of his administration, President Obama, highlighted the need for dads to improve when he inaugurated the Fatherhood Initiative. The administration designed this program to empower dads, through mentoring and skills training, to become the fathers their children deserve. The initiative’s goal is captured in this statement: “We need fathers to realize that responsibility does not end at conception. We need them to realize that what makes you a man is not the ability to have a child—it’s the courage to raise one.”

Becoming a good dad is a daunting challenge. Parenting has changed dramatically in the past generation. Dads are now expected to do much more than provide for their children’s physical needs; they’re expected to provide for their children’s emotional, psychological, and spiritual needs too. It can all seem a little overwhelming—kind of like changing a diaper for the first time. The day after our twin daughters were born, a nurse handed me two diapers and walked out of the room. “What am I supposed to do with these?,” I wondered.

Over the past decade, there’ve been a lot of books and studies published concluding that dads play an unbelievably significant role in the lives of their children, and that we fathers need to start doing an even better job of parenting. But how? How can we start becoming better dads?

It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that we can become good dads by doing the right things: if we can only get our children involved in enough events or into the right school, then they will have the edge they need to succeed. Sadly, the unintended consequence can be that children not only internalize pressure from the implicit message to perform but they have less time to be at home enjoying the down time necessary for emotional and psychological health.

Being instead of Doing

If you’d like to become a better dad, the most important thing you can do is this: focus on being instead of doing. By being, I mean this: cultivate a relationship with your child. As a dad of five daughters ages 10 and younger, I’ve learned that a good relationship hinges upon the quality of the interaction I have with my daughters. Giving dignity by so deeply valuing each of them is an unbeatable gift. By encouraging, supporting, listening to, and respecting each of them, I can hope to guide them through the mazes of childhood, attentive not only to their hopes and dreams, their fears and sorrows, but also to the ways in which they’re processing life on a daily basis.

Much of being a good dad to young children lies in the every day moments of life. Since monotony makes up a great deal of daily life, most of good parenting centers on daily interactions. The way you relate to your kids in the hum-drum moments of life provides the most important impact in shaping them. The words you use when calling them for supper, the way you touch them, the kindness in your tone, the way you look at them when you’re with them—all of those seemingly small things have huge consequences for the internal make-up of how your child views and lives in the world.

To be a good dad, you do not have to splurge on a vacation to Disney World. To be a good dad, you need to be a good guy to your child in today’s small moments: snuggle, relax, tickle, and read a book with your kid. You’ll see the evidence of your impact on your kid: when I see one of our children smile or when I hear them laugh, I know that their heart is singing and there’s no better sound in the universe.

The Best Place to Start

Maybe the best place to start is to try to see things from your child’s perspective. If you were your child, how would you perceive your dad, your life, and your daily circumstances?  Mentally trading places with your child can produce lots of helpful insights.

If you’d like to become an even better dad, consider the following:

  • Embrace the idea that you can change
  • Make change a commitment
  • Vow to focus on the relationship with your child
  • Start with small changes and keep focused on the small issues
  • Focus on one day at a time

Being a dad is the most joyful, exhausting, exciting, and rewarding experience of a lifetime. You have the opportunity this year to do something incredible, something much more meaningful than any hobby or work accomplishment: you can become a hero in your child’s eyes. You can make your child’s heart sing. You can experience the joy of hearing your child whisper as she’s falling asleep, “I love you, Daddy.” Go for it.

Get more of David’s parenting insight when you purchase Splashing in Puddles: How to Be a Father to Your Daughter on Vyrso today. 

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The Freedom of Love: A Message for Mothers

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Today’s guest post is by Jessica Thompson, author of  Give Them Grace: Dazzling Your Kids with the Love of Jesus, which is available from Vyrso.

The Freedom of Love

You are free to love your children without expectations because you have been loved immeasurably. You have a heavenly Father who rejoices over you with singing, who calls you His beloved, whose pet name for you is “My delight.” Your Father loves you this way because He sees you as He sees His most precious Son. The One who came to live the life we are called to live, to love the way we are called to love, and to pay the price for the sins we have committed.

You can love your children without regret or guilt. You have been forgiven for all the times you have failed as a parent. You have been forgiven for the times you have ignored or been angry and selfish with the children in your home. You are forgiven for the mistakes. You are completely clean before your Maker.

You can love your children that have gone on to be with the Lord. He cares gently and deeply for you in the loss of your sons and daughters. He understands the pain of losing a precious child.

You can love your children as a single mom who feels like she just can’t do it another day. Your heavenly Father carries you close to His heart. His thoughts towards you are continual, and His love for you is unending. In your weakness He is strong.

You can love your children without feeling the need to save them. You are not strong enough to save them; you can’t always say the right words, be consistent enough, or use the right methods. Only One is powerful enough to save, and you can entrust your children’s souls to His nail-scarred hands.

You can love your children without needing them to build your identity. You can be free to stop using their goodness to make you feel like a good mom. You can stop using their athletic ability, their musical talents, or their academic achievements to cover your flaws as a mom. You are a flawed, sinful mother, but you have been given a new identity in Christ. He has taken the old, worn-out wardrobe of your children’s accomplishments and has clothed you in the righteousness of Christ.

Most importantly you are free to love your God whose love for you is without bounds. There is no height, no depth, no length, no width to His affection for you. You can love Him because He first loved you. You can love Him because He has freely taken all of the guilt and the regrets and has thrown them into the depths of the sea. You can love Him because He walked through all the pain and rejection that you walk through as a mother. Not only does He understand; He sympathizes with you. He is with you and will never leave you. Because of His unfailing love, you are free to love.

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